Reclaim Your Power from the Need for Approval

 Reclaim Your Power from the Need for Approval

By Kelly Granite Enck

Are you living for others' approval? Does your mind frequently churn with thoughts like, Do they like me? What do they think of me? You’re not alone. This constant worry is not you—it’s your brain processing data from your past environment. Let’s unravel the science behind this and explore how you can transcend these patterns to live fully in the present moment.

Your Brain: A Data Processor

From childhood, our brains absorb data like a sponge. If a parent constantly worried about others' opinions, this concern programs the child’s brain. Later, when a thought like What do people think of me? pops up, it’s merely your brain replaying old recordings. These thoughts trigger the fight-or-flight response, causing unnecessary stress.

The Science of the Silent Brain

To break free, we must see the brain from a higher level of consciousness—a silent brain. Silence in the brain isn’t emptiness; it’s a gateway to pure presence. When your brain is silent, you stop reacting to mental chatter and start creating consciously.

This state is supported by quantum mechanics, which reveals that our focus shapes reality. When you worry about others' opinions, you give energy to those fears, reinforcing them in the quantum field. By contrast, when you set an intention—for example, to enjoy your time with a friend—you align with the present moment, creating an outcome based on deliberate focus.

Why Thoughts Create Suffering

Thoughts shape emotions, feelings, and even physical sensations. When you dwell on what others think, you generate stress, tension, and unease. This is the “reactor brain.” The silent brain, however, is the “creator brain.” It’s blissfully present, fully engaged with the now, and free of suffering.

The Power of the Present Moment

Quantum physics also shows us that the present moment is the only true reality. Inner dialogue distorts it, creating unnecessary stories and judgments. In silence, you connect with the flow of life, untouched by false narratives.

Steps to Quiet the Brain and Take Control

1. Recognize the Source: Understand that your thoughts about others’ opinions are old recordings, not your true self.
2. Set Intentions: Before any event, set a clear purpose. This shifts your energy from worry to creation.
3. Practice Silent Brain Training™: Learn how to quiet the mental chatter and live in the present moment. This practice transforms the brain, enabling you to master your focus and actions.

Be a Deliberate Creator

The next time you find yourself wondering what others think, shift gears. Focus on the experience you want to create and the joy you wish to bring to the moment. Remember, in the quantum world, attention shapes reality.

Need Help?

If you’re ready to leave the suffering brain behind and embrace the creator brain, visit www.DoylestownHypnosis.com. Silent Brain Training™ can guide you to lasting transformation in just one session.

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Together, we can train your brain to be silent, present, and aligned with your true potential. Let’s move from reacting to creating!

Silent Brain Training™ : Silent Consciousness Teacher

  Silent Brain Training™

Kelly Granite Enck works with severe cases of anxiety, trauma, panic attacks, and OCD as a Hypnotherapist. To help her clients overcome anxiety in a single session, she created Silent Brain Training (SBT). The goal of Silent Brain Training is to transcend the inner voice, or what is also called ego, to reach pure consciousness, known as Silent Consciousness. Silent consciousness is a state of being, in which the mind is free from all thoughts, and inner dialogue, and one is fully engaged in the present moment. This state is also known as self-realization or pure consciousness, where one experiences the absolute truth of existence beyond the limitations of the ego and individual identity. The ego or individual identity is a construct of the mind, created by identification with thoughts, emotions, and external objects. Through self-inquiry, one can question the nature of the self and discover that it is not limited to these constructs but is instead pure consciousness. One can enter into a state of silent consciousness by focusing on this pure consciousness and letting go of all thoughts and attachments to the ego.

Silent Brain Training™ (SBT) : Silent Consciousness Teacher

The brain loves to protest, judge, and build walls to protect itself, especially if there was an unjust event in early childhood. Clearing childhood or adult trauma is the first step toward calming the brain’s response to those negative events. When the brain has been allowed to indulge itself with the behavior of running dialogue, no matter how big or how small the negative event, the mental and physical conditions get worse. Rumination is another name for internal dialogue, thoughts create emotions, feelings, and sensations that contribute to all suffering and illness.

 

90% of Brain Growth Happens Before Kindergarten. Incredibly, the brain doubles in size in the first year. The brain keeps growing to about 80% of adult size by age 3, and 90% nearly full-grown by age 5. The brain is the command center of the human body. The brain processes events from early childhood, and the brain is still using this data to prevent hurts from happening again, causing anxiety, all the way into our adulthood. We have thoughts stirring from events in early childhood, which is really the 5-year-old brain experiencing the world as if it is going to hurt us again. The early childhood brain tries to process events without the context that adults have, so even what adults would consider small events, can be processed and stored in the child’s brain in a way that can cause distress and rumination throughout adult life.

 

The benefits of silence on the brain were studied at Duke University by a regenerative biologist, Imke Kirste. Rats were given pure silence for 2 hours a day over two weeks. The silence created new hypothalamus cells in the rat’s brain. The hypothalamus is important as it plays a significant role in the endocrine system. The hypothalamus maintains your body’s internal balance, which is known as homeostasis.

I have created a fun and effective approach to train your brain to be silent, free from the merry-go-round of inner dialogue. After just one Rapid Resolution Therapy (RRT) Session with Silent Brain Training (SBT), you will have the tools to live in the present moment, free from limiting beliefs, and free from childhood and adult trauma. The silent brain gives the body a break from the fight or flight autonomic nervous system response caused by repetitive negative thoughts. The Silent Brain allows you to live in the Present Moment, seeing to it that each step you take is ideally suited to the outcome you hope to achieve in the end.

 

Silent Brain Training (SBT) works for everyone, with lasting results. If you do the work, you will get the results! I have taught this method to clients as young as 6 years old, up to age 92, with unbelievable results! I have had clients regain their hearing, recover from trauma immediately, fears vanish, intrusive thoughts disappear, and my clients discover their natural state of fearless existence. You have the power to create your Ideal Reality. If you are not creating your ideal state, then the Silent Brain Training (SBT) will help.

 

Thoughts are not neutral, they hold energy. Negative thoughts create Anxiety, Fear, obsessive worrying, guilt, and anger. Fearful thoughts can put stress on our hearts, and other organs. When we are in a state of anxiety, our brain is activating cortisol, as well as affecting our blood pressure, and other physical responses. Letting the brain run wild with fearful thoughts is literally, allowing our brain to scare us. When we go over worst-case scenarios in our head to avoid bad things from happening, our brain does not know the difference between real life and imagined and gives us the negative experiences of the trauma imagined.

 “A human being,” wrote Einstein, “is a part of the whole, called by us 'Universe,' a part limited in time and space. He experiences himself, his thoughts and feelings as something separated from the rest — a kind of optical delusion of his consciousness."

 

Quantum Physics explains how we interact with electromagnetic fields. In the description of the Electromagnetic Field, our Unseen reality, called by the Cern Instituted Scientists, the Higgs Field, states that whatever we our attention to creates a LUMP in the “electromagnetic field, the Higgs Field, and if ALL of us give something our attention, we create a WOBBLE in the “electromagnetic field,” the Higgs Field. Our consciousness creates our reality. When our brain is acting like it is responding to reality, what is actually happening is it is creating more of the same reality.  If you want to change your physical and emotional reality, you have to change what you focus on, ideally taking your attention away from physical or mental fears, and putting the new focus on what you like about life. To become a powerful creator you have to take your attention off anything you do not like, even if the UNWANTED EVENT is staring you directly in the face. The brain is hypnotized by negative events, engaging in inner dialogue in protest, which you need to break the habit of, to reach these higher levels of consciousness as a deliberate creator. When you train your brain to turn off all the thoughts/data/inner dialogue, the brain becomes quieter and quieter, to the point where you no longer notice any thoughts or inner dialogue, this is the goal of my Silent Brain Training (SBT).

You get what you focus on. There is no other main rule.

“The personality is given the greatest gift of all; you get exactly what you want to get. You create from nothing the experience that is your own. If you do not like your experience, then look within yourself and change it. But realize also that you are responsible for your joys and triumphs, and that the energy to create any of these realities comes from the inner self. What you do with it is up to the individual personality.”   ~ Seth

Everything is endowed with units of consciousness (UC). Our multidimensional reality allows our consciousness to move freely to create and recreate, irrelevant of time and space. Next time you catch yourself in an inner dialogue, with thoughts telling you that you cannot do something, put your brain on silent like you would put your cell phone on silent during a flight. Once the chatter is off, create an ideal outcome, then take Action.

Silent Brain Training (SBT) goes beyond the state of temporary silence that you may have experienced during meditation, you will learn how to train the brain to stay silent during all activities. The brain can be trained to be fully absorbed in whatever you are creating or doing. When you are in this state of “silent brain,” there is no “Me or I” story, you are literally one with whatever you are creating, in the zone, in the flow, in the Present Moment.

 

Silence has the opposite effect on the brain compared to noise. While noise may cause stress and tension, silence releases tension in the brain and body. Scientists have discovered noticeable improvements in blood pressure and circulation in silent brains vs. their noisy counterparts. Silence replenishes our cognitive resources. The tendency to ruminate is an indicator of susceptibility to developing the depressive disorder as it has been shown that rumination is a predictor of the onset of this condition (Nolan, Roberts, & Gotlib, 1998; Nolen-Hoeksema, 2000; Roberts, Gilboa, & Gotlib, 1998; Spasojević & Alloy, 2001). Rumination is the extended and unproductive analysis of one’s negative emotions, thoughts, feelings, and sensations. Rumination actually increases your negative emotions in a never-ending trap of increasingly negative thoughts and emotions. The irony is that ruminating does not lead to solving the issues you are ruminating about. Rumination ACTUALLY KEEPS you from taking action to solve the underlying problems.

 

Scientific literature has found differences, between ruminators and non-ruminators in how neurons fire between specific parts of the brain!! Science has further determined that the differences occur between parts of the brain that have developed functional roles during human evolution, so their performance is due to the environment. In other words, specific life experiences have programmed your brain to create negative thoughts. An Olympic Level Master Meditator has a brain oscillating with Theta Brain Waves, this is a brain in a state of bliss, calm all the time. The brain changes when taught to stop ruminating, and it can be seen in an electroencephalogram (EEG), recorded either from inside the brain or from electrodes attached to the scalp.

 

“You are not your thoughts. Your thoughts are programmed by your environment and collective consciousness. When you stop identifying with your thoughts, all your suffering ends. Silent Brain Training is the fastest way to get to the state of Enlightenment, the higher levels of consciousness! Once you reach this mountain peak, you will have left footprints in the collective consciousness for the evolution of man to follow.”  ~ Kelly Granite Enck 

 

During your Rapid Resolution Therapy (RRT) Session, you will learn the Silent Brain Training (SBT) technique and develop full control over your brain. When you no longer identify with your thoughts, you will have awakened to a higher level of consciousness, and can deliberately create your ideal reality. We will also clear the root cause event, that keeps your brain stuck. You can create your ideal reality, and it helps to clear the thoughts, traumas, and any limiting beliefs.  

Book your appt here, in your own time zone and Kelly will email you a Zoom Link and work with you until your goals have been met. www.DoylestownHypnosis.com